long story short
had standard moggy 5 years female
husband later introduced a british shorthair - male
the two of them are great together look after each other female keeps the male on his toes but they know who the boss is
3 years ago we introduced bobby our kitten there was some resistance at first and the britsh shorthair stopped being at home and we had just put it down to him visiting people
bengal then started to go visiting too and fell on a family who adopted him, fed him, kept him in, then took him to the vets for us to go and pay, (it caused a lot of heartache)
so we then made the decision to keep bobby indoors, and so far he has actually been ok, a bit of winging but nothing that bad, i now have a gorgous loving playgul bengal
however the british shorthair has now started to not come in, pop in for food then go out again and its breaking my heart as while bobby the bengal was out visiting the last year, we have had the british shorthair by our sides and very happy
all we hear is fighting hissing growling when the three cats are together
i have tried everytihg to make this work with bobby but im now starting to feel that i should re home him, and i feel so bad in thinking it let alone saying it,
i think he needs to be the only cat and i cant bear that bobby is driving the otehr cats away and upsetting them
and i really dont know what to do they wont get on at all
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