I went to my breeder to choose again today, and I'm going to be bringing two different kittens home than I originally planned..
The litter that the two that I was planning to get had FHV (I was aware of this before I picked them out), and seemed to be recovering pretty well. Unfortunately the boy kitten took a turn for the worse and died
My breeder let me choose a new boy (healthy!) and girl, as she didn't want to put the FHV girl with a kitten that didn't have it.
So I picked out two beautiful new kittens today. The girl is a few weeks older than the boy, and they'll both be coming home next month when he's 12 weeks old.
There were no silvers left, so I'm going to have a beautiful snow lynx (spotted, female this time) again.
Boy!
Girl!