Hi all,
My name is syaiful and i'm from singapore.new to this forum and do read alot from this forum.
All right.my cat list are as followed:
1 mainecoon mix domestic long hair(dhl) (young) 3 spotted mix rosseted bengal kitten(3 female) 3 bengal young cat.(1 male 2 female)
The mainecoon(MC) are getting along well with the 3 kitten.been eating together and sometime they will "fight" with each other.
My dilemma came from the 3 young one,
It has been a week since i got the 1st one before i get the other 2 from the same breeder.and 3 of them were sibling,and i found out the were locked up in cages since they were young.
They are now in the "safe room".and everytime when i came in to give them food n clean up they room,they will run and hide.
My guilt :( ,
Among all 3,1 of the young female let me hold her up,pat and talk to her.and when i let her go,she will walk and hide behind boxes or her cage.
For the other 2,they manage to run out of the safe room,and when i get them,i really "man handled" them in the hard way by grabbing them really hard,and the male, i pull him by the leg to get him back to the "safe room" as i know that they are not ready to explore.i know what i did was soo wrong that i feel so sad,guilty,talked to them and apologise after i treated them that way. :( :(.
What should i do?i know they will remember what i did to them, and i'm so sorry because i'm new to bengal cat and kitten.
How can i gain their trust back?and to let them know that i'm not a bad person.
Thank you.
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