First of all, welcome to our forum. Secondly, DO NOT ever use a spray bottle on your kitty! It only instills fear in them. And it will NOT stop the bad behavior.
Thirdly, and most important of all, YOU HAVE A BENGAL! Bengals are not like any other breed of cat. Not to mention, YOU HAVE A BENGAL KITTEN. My first question would be whether you did the introduction to your other kitties the proper way -- new kitten in safe room away from the other cats, swap out scents for a couple of weeks, etc.? Bengals have high energy -- bengal kittens have even higher energy! Do you play with your bengal? She needs that stimulation -- and most older cats will not give that, so you need to be playing with her. Does she have a cat tree?
As for letting her outside -- it's a personal decision but are you prepared to lose her? Yes, cats may come back, but eventually something will happen -- hit by cars, get attacked by a dog or wild animal or even another cat, get stolen by some person who loves a leopard-looking kitty. It's a simple solution so you don't have to deal with your bengal. We all have or have had bengals here and we learn to deal with them. Your bengal needs space. If you want her to experience the outdoors, build a catio or cat enclosure (google for some great ideas) or train her to walk on a harness and leash and take her for walks (mine gets two a day!).
I've had cats for over 50 years -- and I was used to cats who slept for 20 hours a day, ate, groomed, and went back to sleep. A bengal does not do this. I'm afraid you were not completely prepared to take care of a bengal (I know I wasn't when Raiden came into my life three years ago as a six-year old cat who had been allowed to roam free outside). I know how exasperating a bengal can be, but it is NOT the bengal's fault. Your kitten is acting completely normal for a bengal. Know, too, that bengals never grow up. They are perpetual two-year old toddlers.
You need to make sure that your other kitties have places they can go so they aren't bothered by your kitten. And you need to be wearing your kitten out with play -- they love wand toys. There are times when adding a new kitten, especially a bengal, will upset the balance in the household. Before you decide to toss her into the big outside world, you might want to see if the breeder will take her back or try to rehome her. She is not doing anything wrong. You simply need to understand this is the way of a bengal kitten and accept with it. I learned that you can't change a bengal ... I had to change my way of thinking about Raiden. He is truly a handful at times, but I love him and wouldn't have it any other way.
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