Thank goodness for this forum because where else could I ask this question?! So, I posted before that there was some aggression between Spider and Masaai. Its definitely switched, Massai is senior in all their tumbles now. Luckily for me, Spider was only slightly in charge and Masaai has settled into the same slightly higher spot. Their friendship has pretty much stayed the same. Grooming, sleeping together, everything. Im very lucky because it could have been so much worse. Anyway, a surprising question now comes to mind, and forgive me!!!! Before the 'power change' when Spider was dominant, one thing that he used to do that made me laugh/shudder was actively seek out cleaning Masaai's rear end (Ill keep it clean!) all the time!....and now that Maasai has asserted himself he is cleaning Spiders! Dominant cleaning submissive. I guess my question is, and I apologise for the question, have you seen this with your cats?! Lol