Have you tried playing with him with da Bird? A lot of playtime will likely help win his heart over. I would also give it plenty of time. Three weeks isn't very long and kittens change a lot as they grow.

Unfortunately when kittens aren't socialized at a young age it is harder to get them to trust, but it will usually come with time. Sounds like you're making some progress already, keep up the good work.

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Dallas, TX USA
Diesel - snow Bengal born 09/01/2013 adopted Feb 2014
Tuck, Chloe, Buddy, Lewis & Tia - rescue kitties
Clyde, Bleu & Coal - Great Danes

This is really sad about the socialization of the kitty! This is why people should do thorough research on a breeder. It's so important that the kittens have interaction with humans while they are growing. Not just with the breeder to check on the kittens. The best breeders integrate the queen and kittens into their home (this is why they usually do one litter at a time and not try to deal with multiple queens and litters of kittens). These are the breeders who are in it to breed the BEST kittens and not the MOST kittens. Now that you know your breeder did not socialize Zuki, you understand what he's going through. This is ALL new to him. He's not used to people. Now that you've stepped back a little, he will feel more confident around you. You cannot blame Zuke for any of this ... this is the fault of the breeder and nobody else. It's not too late for Zuki, but it will take some time. By now, he should know his name and may come to you if you call him. Just that fact that he wants to be around you is progress.

I know you'll hang in there and things will get better with time.

I know it's tempting to feed kittens treats off your plate, but that may lead him to demanding your food and get out of hand once he gets used to you. It's okay if you are alone, but if it becomes routine it will be hard to control when guests are over. I fell into that trap and meal time became a circus. They became so aggressive trying to steal my food!

Once they went onto a restricted venison diet I had to stop any treats and they don't beg for my food any more either. They totally ignore me while I have my dinner because they know they will not get any.

I'm lucky. My hubby keeps trying to feed Raiden table food but Raiden is not interested! It is better if you do not give them scraps of human food. It's fine to hand feed the kitty for a while, but he really needs to learn to eat out of his bowl.

Sounds like you have made a ton of progress! So happy for you and Zuki!

Just an update on little Zuki –

He is doing much, much better! He has become more trusting and much less scared of me.

When we first got him, as soon as we lifted him up off the ground, he would wriggle around and get his claws out and scratch us.

Now I am able to pick him up and carry him somewhere without him minding, and I can even cuddle him like a baby in my arms for 10 seconds or so until he wants to be put down.

I think that is progress!

He is being purry and enjoying head and back pats and scratches.

I bought him Da Bird and he absolutely loves it, he hisses and growls at it and does big flips through the air, it’s so funny to watch.

See .... with time and patience things get so much better! Love the update.

I'm very glad that this seems to be heading towards a happy ending, and a budding friendship. It sounds like you are now appreciating the bengal in him, and seeing that for what it is.

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The little monsters 3

What two beautiful creatures!!! You learned a huge lesson and it's made a tremendous difference in Zuki. Getting him used to a harness and a leash and taking walks will solidify your bond. At times, he may just want to sit and rest and it's a great time for you to be together. Hopefully, he'll love the walking jacket, although be prepared that he may fight it, so putting it on him and just letting him wear it around the house first is the best idea. Once they get used to the jacket or harness, they are ready to venture outdoors. Hope your other kitty won't be jealous of that! People do walk their moggies -- one family walks theirs with their three dogs.

Thank you for being patient and trying to put yourself in Zuki's paws. The picture of the both of you is really indicative of how far he has come! Congratulations. You've gone a great job.