If you are going to get two cats, then the best thing is probably littermates, but as Kendra is 10 months old now, the sooner the better. However, unless Kendra is spending most of the time on her own, due to long working hours, hectic social life, both. Then I would question as to whether you really need two cats. If you have a big home and plenty of room for both to have separate territories if they want to, then two is fine, but if you have a small flat/apartment/house then a Bengal can easily fill that all on their own and may not be happy sharing it long term. Most of the Bengals in rehoming pages specify they must be an only cat. Territorial fighting and bullying is not uncommon, if the space is limited. Kittens and young cats tend to love each other, it is when they grow up and develop wants, needs and personalities of their own that the issues may start. A lot of the behavioural problems seen in cats are due to forcing cats into close proximity with each other.
Also two's company three's a crowd, the close bonding you have at the moment with Kendra may disappear if the two cats become almost self-sufficient and no longer need you, or you end up favouring Kendra or the new cat takes Kendra's place in your affections, leaving her an outcast. I occasionally see owners who "blame" the original cat for being unfriendly when they get a new kitten, who "blame" the original cat when it ends up peeing around the house or it ends up bullying the new arrival, I have even seen owners who rehome the original cat because it was so horrible to the new cat... Territory and their home is very important to cats, they cannot be blamed for showing normal cat behaviour. As an only cat, Kendra has been able to rule the roost, she has your undivided attention, she has developed a connection to where she calls home, she may not be happy accepting a new arrival. If she isn't happy then you need a lot of patience and understanding to quell her anxiety enough for her to accept another cat into her territory. It may take days, it may take weeks, it may take months, or even years, or they may never be bosom buddies. If you decide to rehome an adolescent or an adult be prepared for the long haul, you may be surprised if both are very laid back, but the transition may be very long.
If you do decide to get a new cat I would suggest quarantining the new arrival in a separate room for at least two weeks, because 1. a new cat can bring in infection and infestation to our home - you do not want two ill cats. 2. the new arrival will be scared and unsure of you and your home, it may then exhibit fear or aggression due to anxiety that may scare Kendra more than is needed. Settle the new arrival first so it is truly confident and happy and knows how to use its litter box consistently, before it meets Kendra.
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