Binx_Bengal_Mummy wrote:
wow this really is dragging up an old thread!! But i thought it was the best way to do what im about to do.
This year has been traumatic for me and my kids to say the least. I had to flee from my marriage for my safety with nothing but a black bag with few clothes in and start over from nothing and no money. This meant leaving behind my beautiful cats.
Some people on here would of heard its and bits about what has gone off and part of my recovery from my terrible ordeal has been for me to face up to what i truley lost AND gained from leaving this 'man'.
My poor babies were sold to randomers for no where near what they were worth and to this day i have no clue as to where they are or how they are. He knew this would be the best way to punish me for leaving. Coming back on here to see my pics of y babies has been heartbreaking, il be honest iv put it off for months cus i new it would bloody hurt seeing their faces.
If anyone ever heres of Wild honey, iamtheman Khaan, their kittens, or my boy binx then please mail me on
natashajago64@googlemail.com even if it is a quik note to say they are alive and well you just dnt no what it would mean.
Domestic violence ruined my life my kids life and these innocent animals. And the guilt ifeel as i feel i let them down is starting to re form itself. Thanks and sorry x
Aww...... What a terrible situation...... Sounds like you made the only choice available to you...... As much as I'm sure we ALL love our cats, I would bet that every one of us that is a parent would do exactly the same thing as you did!
I know that won't help you feel better about losing them, or less concerned about their current welfare, but it will hopefully just re-in force what you already do know......
That you are a great mother, and a very brave woman!!
Good luck for your future with your children......
Much love
Lori
xx