Hi everyone,
I'll apologize for the length of this post in advance :)
So a bit of back story on my situation. I've had my boy, Lennox, for going on 3 years. He's been with me ever since he left the cattery. For the first two and a half years, he lived with only me. I never had roommates and had only the same few guests over from time to time. I was really the only one to give daily, constant interaction and affection. However, two months ago, my boyfriend moved in. Lennox and my boyfriend get along well enough though its neither really cares for the other.
Now here's where it gets a bit sticky. Whenever I am in close proximity of my boyfriend, on the couch watching TV for example, Lennox insists on wanting to play. I play with him quite often and to the point where he tires himself out and falls asleep in the middle of the floor. If i'm on the couch by myself, Lennox is off doing his own thing. But the minute my boyfriend sits down next to me, or vice versa, he's up to his attention demanding antics. His favorite: scratching at the TV screen (which happens to be my boyfriends). When he does this, we usually shoo him off but he'll jump right back up the moment we sit down. Sometimes I will get down on the floor, play with him until he falls asleep or gets bored and then climb back on the couch. At which point he wakes up and repeats. He does this relentlessly, every single night. We've begun putting him in the bedroom and closing the door when he does this. Mostly, he just curls up on the bed and sleeps but sometimes he cries and paws at the door. So of course I feel bad doing this and end up letting him out after awhile and more often than not, he goes right back to the TV screen.
The second problem is the sleeping situation. Prior to my boyfriend moving, Lennox slept with me a good majority of nights. Now, there simply isn't much room left in the bed for him, although i'd be happy to make space if he would just settle down. But he won't. Instead, he gets into various things around the room, demanding attention and wanting to play, including his coveted scratching the TV screen. He used to just curl up in bed with me and go right to sleep. I try to keep him in the room at night hoping that he'll settle down and sleep but of course, he doesn't and because of this he gets closed out at night.
Any suggestions (other than getting rid of the boyfriend) on how to alleviate this jealous behavior? I truly feel horrible every time I close him out of the bedroom or lock him in there but his relentless antics get under my boyfriends skin. PLEASE HELP!
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