Please don't get upset about comments, just think of it as a giant brainstorming session with people coming from all angles! It sounds as if you have an exuberant kitty who loves to play and gets over excited. It really does not sound like aggression to me. The trouble is with bengals is that they are so muscular and strong that their playing can hurt you. Please just remember she is only being a cat. It sounds like your running away during play triggers her hunt/chase response. Try and walk calmly away from play and maybe you could train her to understand a word that means playtime over? These cats are soooo clever! I know what your husband is like as mine was the same.........until I explained his behaviour was having the opposite effect (he is used to dogs) Do you have wand toys she can chase and focus on? Flying frenzy (England) Da Bird (USA) I always sat with a big stuffed toy to fend Oscar off when he got riled up. He then proceeded to beat the toy up and not me! During play if he runs at you- stand your ground, say a firm no, fend him off with toy if necessary and then walk away and ignore. Good luck and try and stay calm and assertive. Do no act like prey