Hi
Hendrix is, I believe, trying to become the alpha of our house, and it seems this would include dominating me as well lol I need to nip this in the bud pretty sharpish so I thought I'd ask for some tips on here.
This behaviour has only started in this last week and I think it is because my other half has returned to sea and he was viewed as the alpha male of the house. Hendrix has definitely stepped up some aggression in his 'play' fights with Jagger and I'm having to break these up. Not that Jagger can't stand his ground, but I don't want it getting to the point they fall out. In fact, I honestly think if Jagger wanted to, he could put Hendrix firmly in his place, he is a bigger, stronger cat but just isn't as territorial as Hendrix. He has never picked a fight with any neighbourhood cats, although I have seen Hendrix do so - not that he gets in a fight, just a chase away from what he considers his territory. Jagger has always let Hendrix be the alpha out of the two of them as well.
Anyway, Jon went back to sea a week ago and was also gone for a week before our holiday. Some behaviour I've put down to being unsettled, but Jagger hasn't changed and seems to have settled down after the upheaval of Jon going away, mum looking after them whilst we were away (they were little angels for her) and its been a week now since it was just me and them again. Jon will only be back for two weeks for each of his watch leaves, and whilst he will be back towards the end of August, he then won't be back until the end of October.
I'm not letting Hendrix get away with anything and he is still a lovely boy, however, he is challenging me on a daily basis, even in the way he is locking eyes with me! I need to quickly get him to understand that whilst his 'dad' isn't here at the moment, I'm in charge and not him. I also don't want him to bully Jagger. I feel if I do something now, it is easier to fix than if I just see if it is a phase and hope things might sort themselves out.
Any tips appreciated!
_________________ Clare Hendrix and Jagger, Brown Marble Boys (born 18 August 2013) Hampshire, UK
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