Hello everyone!
This is my first post here but I've been an anonymous reader for quite some time now.
We have a bengal boy named Leo, who is 6 years old but we got him at 3 years old. We are his second house as his previous owners purchased him because he was pretty, but they got tired of his energetic nature pretty quickly. His previous owner where a couple with 2 little chihuahua and a baby girl. We are a couple living alone in the top floor of a 4 building apartment complex, so he can't go outside. He his snipped and declawed (not our choice and pretty common here in Canada, unfortunately).
Leo was always pretty vocal and energetic, and he also really bonded with my husband, even if I am the primary caregiver, most of the time. He follows my husband everywhere, cry really loudly when he goes in the bathroom without him and close the door, cry for a while when DH leaves home and is always snuggled on his lap, near him, or at his feet at the bed. He vocalize alot when my husband talk to him. When I'm alone with him he is mostly sleeping or walking around or looking outside the windows.
We are coming back from vacations (8 days long and about a week ago) and he had someone take care of him at home everyday, play with him, give him food and water for around 2 hours everyday. However, he is crying and meowing louder than ever and acting weird since we are back home. Since we are home, about a week, we were not able to get a full night of sleep since he was meowing non stop for 2 am to 4 am. He is meowing all the time we are here, for not apparent reason, a lot more than he used to. As we are in an appartment complex, we are really worried that people will call the police as it sounds like we are torturing him or something.
Also, last night when my husband went to pee at 3h30am and got back to the bed, Leo attacked him pretty badly. He attacked his arms and pounced on his back and bit his arm enough to draw blood. I was scared and my husband was really scared too, as he have done that before with my husband legs, but not that much. He never, ever, attacked me. (I'm guessing it's play agression?)
We are trying to play more with him, at least 2x 15 minutes a day (I'm guessing it's really not enough, but before that we never wanted to play), he have plenty of toys laying around, and I will be buying him a cat tree and a aiku stimulo for his food, to help with his boredom. We will also be taking him to the vet to be sure, and I ordered Feliway. When I play with him, I play with him until we lay on the ground and don't want to play anymore. Should I do that a lot more often?
I read a lot about bengals and cats in general and we are loving him like a baby, and we want to do the best for him. What are we doing wrong? What can we do to stop the agressions before it gets worse and to stop the night meowing? We know that bengals are loving and loud and energetic, and we are really open to all that, but we would like to make him less bored. Should we get him another kitty friend (even if he's 6 years old?) What else can we do?
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