First of all, welcome to the forum and congratulations on your kitten. You got her about 4 weeks before you should have and this could be part of the problem. Bengal kittens should not leave their mother until at least 12 weeks. That being said, it seems as if stress is causing this behavior as you have relocated and will be moving again. Environment is everything to a kitten and hers keeps changing. There is an adjustment period when a new kitten leaves its mom and siblings. And you've also got a baby which adds noise and new energy to the mix.
I think you have an awful lot on your plate right now. All you can do is give it time and perhaps once you get settled into your new place, Oya will have a better routine and a better spot for a litter box. My real question is why the breeder allowed the kitten to leave so early. A lot of social skills are taught by the mom in the final weeks and Oya did not get that.
I realize two weeks is a long time and there will be another adjustment period once you get moved into your new place. So, this could go on for another month! Make sure you're playing with Oya and giving her a lot of attention as well. Bengals are high energy, very vocal and quite demanding of attention. Hang in there and I hope it all works out for you.
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