Having your college kids back I would imagine would be enough to make Lynk feel unsettled. I had this conversation with my OH only today as his nephew was over yesterday and said how unfriendly our two were. However, when he is round, they both play Xbox games and the noise level immediately goes up, lots of shouting etc. They are also in the room where my two like to go for an afternoon nap so their routine is thrown out as well. Jon was moaning they're not well socialised but admitted when I pointed these things out, especially as his nephew is incredibly tall, that it must be quite scary for them. They are fine if you are sat chatting, they will come in and sniff someone's hand and then let them pet them, but with noise and someone going straight in to pet them, they will run off.
Routine is everything and I'm sure Lynk will adjust and get used to the extra humans in his world eventually, and hopefully stop any inappropriate peeing where he is feeling insecure. He is pretty young and this is a big change for him.
_________________ Clare Hendrix and Jagger, Brown Marble Boys (born 18 August 2013) Hampshire, UK
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