I have had Harley for a little over 8 months, and when we first got him he was very timid and there was absolutely zero chance of us picking him up. He was a rescue by the way and we are unsure of his past, but my guess is that it wasnt pleasant. Back on topic, it took some time for him to open up to us, but he finally came around. My advice is to just take it slow, and let your bengal adjust. I am just now to the point where I can pick him up and move him from say the bed to the floor for example. Sometimes I must hold my hand near him for him to sniff me before he will even allow me to pet him. Once he realizes its me, he relaxes and is my little cuddle bug. I guess what im trying to say is, love the cat at the pace that it will allow you to. Also, in regards to the children, most arent exactly gentle, and often move fast. This isnt probally the best combination when it comes to a cat that is in a new environment. I would suggest keeping your bengal in a room while they are over. Once your bengal trust you, you can slowly introduce it to the children in small, monitored sessions.
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