Depends on your preference. Are you looking for the more independent, bossier cat or the sloppier cat. Girls are much more intelligent than the boys and more independent. The boys are sloppier. There is also a difference in size. Girls, on average 8-9lbs, boys 13-15lb (although you do get bigger and smaller in both sexes.

Regards

do you mean sloppier or soppier?

Sloppy doesn't sound so attractive

Boys are generally smoochier. And yes - a whole lot bigger. My girl is very smoochy though - she's a big mummy's girl. Or small, I should say She's absolutely psychotic when not sleeping or smoochy, and loads of fun. Great exercise too as she likes to play chasey with ALL of us - my two cats, husband and self included (also any visitors - especially kids).

Can't say so much for the boy bengals as we've never had one, but ALL of my boy cats have always been big sops

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