Your kittens are not Bengals, they are EGs (early generation hybrids), huge difference temperament wise. An EG is a specialist cat that needs very experienced handling to make it anywhere near a pet. F2's are only 2 generations away from the wild, they carry a lot of wild genes and with that comes "wild" behaviour. The ALC is a timid wild cat, so the problems with "wildness" in EGs can be fear and anxiety.
Hunter has probably inherited more domestic genes and Bambi more wild genes. Bambi is essentially a wild cat living in your house, by the sounds of things. Hunter has probably intensely bonded to you and that is a very common EG trait too, some EG owners can hardly leave their cat, due to anxiety levels in the cat if they have to go out, or leave them for any period of time. Many of the real issues in EGs start when they grow up into adults at 2-3 years, but yours seem to have started early. How were they raised by the breeder?
Noise, soiling, timidity, anxiety, anxiety fueled aggression, fear of strangers, bonding with one person alone to the exclusion of anyone else, territorial marking, intensity, obsessive behaviour patterns, pica, unable to cope with any change, are all recognised EG traits.
Is Bambi bonded to Hunter, or Hunter bonded to Bambi? If they aren't particularly close, then I would suggest that you look for a specialist home for Bambi, someone who understands wild cat behaviour and is willing to put every day effort into raising a wild cat, someone who has loads of time and someone who will give of their time for the cat. NOT someone who just has some airy fairy notion of "wildness" nor someone who just wants to own an exotic pet. But someone who may have a lot of outdoor space to make a zoo enclosure if necessary, would be ideal, someone who is willing to give commitment to taming him, and reducing his anxiety levels otherwise he will just end up being put down. Being put down is not fair as he didn't ask to be put in the situation he is in, his behaviour is normal, the position he finds himself in, in a domestic house is abnormal. This is not a reflection of you, but I feel Bambi needs is own space, his own person/animal to bond with, and his own territory.
The breeding of EGs mostly for profit is one of the aspects of the breed I am least proud of. Some EG breeders are very good, they consider very carefully the homes they place their cats in, they prepare their owners for all the problems, but it seems you are unaware even of the fact you have EGs and their potential issues and that I blame the breeder for.
Of course EGs hate change, that is one of their foibles, so if you find a great home for Bambi, then Hunter's world may collapse, so be prepared for a rough ride then, it may not, but be prepared.
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