Hi Collett
I'm sorry you've had such a hard time with your breeder, they should answer any questions you have and be there for you in the first few weeks when your kitten has moved to make sure they are settling well, after all they are a business and i am sure if they are good you would reccommend them to others. All i am going to say is that forget about the fiddly stuff that comes with the kitten, dont let it spoil your excitement, they are prob not worth much anyway. Just make sure you get the correct papers and make sure kitty settles in really well. I managed to take a week off when my two came so they got to know me and felt comfortable around me. Hope it all goes well, and you sort your breeder out
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Jen