All I was trying to say is that by the list focusing on the negatives, if I now admit I let my cat out (as I have done), it makes me appear a bad owner and by definition I am being judged on that. That's just how it made me feel!
To clarify, our cats are only allowed out when we're home, I constantly check where they are, I find them if I can't see them, I keep them up to date with inoculations and they are flea'd and wormed regularly. I don't let them out if I see an unfriendly cat or a fox, they are certainly not allowed out over night. They are microchipped and they also wear quick release collars with our details on just in case. I don't chuck them out regardless if it is cold or wet, I'm much more likely to keep them in.
I'm lucky that we live in a quiet cul-de-sac with no through traffic and back onto loads of other gardens plus our cats don't roam too far, they are always within earshot and usually come running if they are called.
Obviously I can't stop all the things on that list from happening to them, but this is the compromise I've had to come to (in my particular situation) and I try to keep them as safe as I can within the above parameters.
_________________ Clare Hendrix and Jagger, Brown Marble Boys (born 18 August 2013) Hampshire, UK
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