I don't think anyone has mentioned questions being 'offensive'. Maybe I'm reading it all wrong there...
In the current economic climate, personal and financial issues are no doubt a huge factor in many rehoming situations, I took this as to what the OP is meaning by the 'all & sundry' comment and others made thereafter. Understandable if this genuinely is the case, I would feel just as tender under the circumstances.
Can't really add anything else to this other than I hope Perdy finds a new home soon.