So sorry to hear your sad news Rhiannon *hugs* xxxxxx

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Update: His dad is still in a lot of pain and the fluid keeps filling his lungs and heart. He is getting the fluid removed once a week now. They are now saying that the cancer DID start in the lungs and its a very fast growing cancer. They are guessing that any treatment he does is only going to prolong his life a extra 2 more months. With that being said he might not do any treatment. His dad seems to think he is not going to see Christmas. They are starting a Hospice at the house next week.

Him and Matt are not going to be able to pay the rent any more coming up really soon. So we are now trying to find a place. We did look at a house a few days ago but it needs a lot of work (windows, drywall, paint) We are not sure if we are going to be able to buy as me and Matt are going to be 1st time home buyers and we don't have the best of jobs. We are going to talk to someone about the loan Sunday. His dad said he will cosign for us, but he is not sure he wants to live with us. He is thinking about going with his sister. We would love to have him with us, but we want him to go and do what will make him happy. His sister doesn't work and they have a big guest room with a bathroom that he can have. Everything is happing so fast. I am just lost...

If we are not able to buy a house then we are going to have to rent a apartment. If that happens then we are going to have to re-home, Buddy, Matt's rottweiler. We don't know anyone who would want to take him. He is such a sweet dog I would really hate to have to do it. My mom said she would watch him for a few months until we find something else but I don't think that would work. I also don't think Olly would be able to handle life in a apartment. He is too wild and crazy. I just don't really know what to do.... Oh well, thanks for letting me vent, I need it.....

oh rhiannon, i really feel for you.
so much to think about your head must be spinning.
i know there's nothing much we can do but sometimes a few supportive words make a difference.
you come on here & vent your frustrations as much as you need to.
BIG HUGS to you & your family xxxxx

oh hon im so sorry you are having a rough time. feel free to vent to us any time you want, we are more than happy to listen and sympathise and if you can think of any way we can help, just let us know.

xx

Update:

His dad is only getting worse. He now has a tube in his lungs to drain the fluid. They started Hospice and he is on oxygen 24/7 and needs 24/7 care. He has moved in with his sisters already. He looks nothing like himself. When he talks he gets lost and forgets what he was saying and gives up...

We are not going to be able to buy. As now we don't have time. We are going to have to rent a house. The rent in the old house is paid for until the end of next month. So we don't have a lot of time.. Work has been giving me more hours but its only like 32-35 hours a week.. Looking for another job, but I am not going to get my hopes up as it took me forever to find this one....